There are so many different pressures int he world today that tell a person how he/she can be attractive. What does it mean to be attractive? How does a person become attractive? What is attractive to you?
     To me personally, I think people are attractive when they are well mannered, decent human beings. Some people have a "type" I do not. I am not one who will judge a person based on what they look like. I have learned that if you want to marry someone who has all the attributes on your list, then you need to have all the attributes on your list. Being attractive doesn't mean that you have the perfect body or the perfect hair and make up. There are people out there who have all the beauty in the outside but they can tend to be rude, judgmental, and proud.  I'm not saying every beautiful person is like this. There are genuine people out there who are very beautiful. Having manners though, will make you ten times more attractive.
    Attrition is however, a big thing in the romance world. You are going to want to be attracted to the person you are physically and romantically involved with. Even if you are not attracted to a person at first does not mean that you will never be attracted them. As you get to know about someone, the way you see them changes. They become more and more attractive with every moment you spend getting to each other. Beauty is only skin deep and in the eye of the beholder.